Hi Lovelies....

Hi Lovelies....

March 20, 2009

Total Disaster...

Semalam...
kala menunggu suami pulang... ym kubuka...dgn status AVAILABLE....
lalu tegurlah seorg sahabat lama yg agak lama jugak la tak berbual lg....
Eddie, si perasan ensem (melalui nicknya, minus ''perasan'')
jejaka yg bertugas sebagai Navigator utk airforce di Subang....

sesuatu yg menarik dlm perbualan kami mengikatkan saya pada 1 peristiwa lama...
TOTAL-DISASTER-MATCH-MAKING...
kenapa saya teringatkan kisah ini? kerana encik Eddie yg mempunyai kerjaya yg sgt memberansangkan ini serta mempunyai rupa yg tak kurang kacak serta berpenampilan menarik ini mengeluh sukar untuk mencari pasangan padahal dia juga ingin berkahwin seperti saya.... lalu, he wanted me to introduce him to one of my eligible friends...

jawapan saya...
I'm not good ini it la, Eddie...one Total Disaster match making is enough for me... I dont want to regret anymore... what if the girl I introduce to you happen to be your worst nitemare? kan susah mcm tu... will jeopardize our friendship, u know...
that reminds me to the incident.... the worst incident for me... total embarassing moment...
I was asked by a cousin, let's call him F (actually, he's not really my close cousin.. he's my cousin's cousin belah mak dia.... but we used to be playmates and childhood friends...) to introduce to one of my friend... and he has given me all the criteria he wants...

so, I thought...why not I introduce him to my sweet and soft classmate of mine, N. So, I gave him her number... and of course told her that my cousin wanted to get to know her... Then, after few weeks communication on the phone... and as me being asking almost about everything from both parties..(honestly, thats annoyed me a bit actually), they finally decided to meet up... but wait... there is a catch up... I need to follow them... urghh... wlupun cube menolak dgn pelbagai alasan... cousin sy yg galak itu dgn selambanya menelefon tunang saya (sekarang, suami) utk meminta kebenaran mengheret sy ke their 1st date...

hari yg bakal memalukan saya sudah tiba... tanpa menyedari yg sy bakal menghadapi kejadian yg bakal saya ingat smpi bila2 itu, sy pon keluar la dgn F dan terus pg ke PKNS, Shah Alam to fetch N. First thing I spot the total disaster which going to happen was... his outfut...penampilan dia!!! What a major total disaster....

dgn faded jeans (not really fashionable faded jeans type, ok), hujung kaki jeans koyak2... tshirt tak berkolar n kusam... the most hideous is the selipar jenama Bata yg dia pki!!! OMG!!! I wanted to scream,but that wont lead me anyway... so, I complaint and dgn selamba dia jwb... ''ala, mula2... tak pyh tunjuk yg elok2. klu dia suka dgn F, dia kena terima siapa F''.

OMG!!!! dont you know the word ''FIRST IMPRESSION DOES MATTER?????'' you supposed to wear like this...

or at least hip like this...
and he supposed to meet my delicate, sweet, lemah lembut and sopan santun classmate??? Total disaster kn? sgt teruk... If I'm the girl he suppose to meet, one glance is enough for me, than I will say.. I'm not interested at all..sorry...and left...

back to the story... this friend of mine, N came and F bring us to 1 tomyam restaurant kt Jln Semarak, dpn Menara Celcom tu...tak ingat apa namanya... and while he went to bathroom, N told me that dia tak selesa... so, I know what she thinks... n decided to take the lead...

well, cut short the story... both of them were definitely not match together... mana budak lemah lembut, sopan and well educated mcm N nk go further dgn mamat selekeh budget bagus like F kan? saya sendiri pon sanggup mengelak jauh mcm tu....imagine if they really end up together??? pasti sekali saya akan sentiasa segan nak tegur N...

well, both of them are happy now...I guess... but not with each other, of course...
F married to his colleague, L from Tapah... his type of girl la... his kind of socialite... suits him a lot...
N is dating a very2 good looking, humble, well educated and earn high salary guy...and most importantly...SOPAN & KEMAS.... Thank god!!

and my moral and lesson are...DONT EVER MATCH ANYBODY WITH ANYONE!!! I can only do that with my sister.. senang...rasa2 mcm tak best jer mamat tu, saya boleh hasut adikku itu... hahaha...evil ek?

as for our friendship after that... F and me, doesnt talk anymore... N and me, still like be4... N yg baik hati dan lemah lembut itu takkan sanggup ketepikan saya, kan N kan?tp, saya masih segan dan malu dgn N smpi skrg... itulah akibatnya kalo pandai2 ye kawan2.... saya mmg tak boleh buka Agensi Mencari Jodoh...hahahaha

ok...in addition to my story...
These are some tips n reminder on How To Dress For A First Date.... enjoice!!!

(taken from http://www.wikihow.com/Dress-for-a-First-Date)

REMINDER!!
  1. Don't go out and buy a whole new wardrobe. Although you may want to buy a cute new top or accessory for the occasion, your current closet stock is probably fine for most first dates.
  2. Don't be afraid to be different, but keep it comfy. You'll want to stand out from all the other girls or guys to catch your date's attention, but if you aren't completely comfortable in it then maybe save it for the second date. You definitely don't want to be fidgeting because of an itchy tag all night!
  3. Make sure you know where you're going. A bit of spontaneity is fun, but having at least a slight idea of where you're going will rule your outfit. If your date says the location is a "surprise", be sure to ask what, in general, should you wear.
  4. Don't be too cautious, or overly flashy. Showing off a bit of the muscles you worked hard for or a touch of skin is flirty and fun for a first date. However, that doesn't mean you should be wearing a super tight, see through wifebeater top or super-short shorts and a midriff baring top. Use common sense, and don't be afraid to keep your date guessing. Girls, don't come off as easy by what clothes you decide to wear. Sad as it is, most people will automatically make assumptions about your personality based on your clothing and posture. Make sure the vibes you're sending are the ones you want received!
  5. Make sure you're comfortable and feel good about yourself and what you're wearing. The worst thing you can do is go out feeling ugly. All night you'll be self-conscious, and the date will be over before it starts.
  6. Be considerate to his/her tastes and ideas without changing yourself too much. For example, if you're dating a "nice" girl, maybe your "Cannibal Corpse - Tomb of The Mutilated" t-shirt isn't the best idea. Tone down your look with a black tee and nice jeans.
TIPS:
  • Having friends around to help you get ready is a good idea. They will tell you if you look good or not and give you advice.
  • Try to also talk to some of the friends of your date. Ask them what she/he is interested in, and more importantly, what she/he doesn't like. Remember, you can always ask her what she/he likes and do/wear that, but if he/she hates hip-hop and you're wearing full on gangsta rap gear, first impression isn't going to be too good.
  • Keep your outfit simple and don't overdress for the occasion. If you're going out to see a movie, then maybe girls wear jeans or a skirt and a nice top, and guys wear jeans and a clean button up shirt. Stay as simple as the date.
  • Wear something versatile in case you extend the date. Remember to wear comfortable shoes!
  • After putting on any accessories, step back from the mirror and take one item away. Remember, your date wants to see you, not your thirty cocktail rings and blinding, goldhoop earrings.
  • Also if you happen to have a shirt from a brand she likes, say Abercrombie, wear that shirt, it shows another common interest.
  • Wear what you would choose for the first day of school.
  • Wear nothing too formal. You will look like you are going to the office!
  • Always bring a jacket, especially if it is cold, you will be her hero when she starts to shiver.
  • Just wear whatever you usually wear. If you usually wear an old T-Shirt and ripped jeans, don't show up in a tux. It's okay to go for a slightly better looking look, but don't completely change yourself.
Oh..oh... and Eddie...
jgn susah hati la... mesti ada suitable girl out there for u..just wait ok? biarlah org nk pndg hina pd kerjaya Army/Airforce/Navy....itu hak diorg... at least u know u hv dignity and u know what u doing... proof them wrong, will ya? diorg bkn tak tau u all pg GAZA bukan utk bercuti kan? put their 10cent useless opinion away... manusia-politik-busuk hati mmg takleh dipisahkan...

me... I kinda suker dgn those guys who wore those army uniform...kinda hot, dont u think? especially with those abs... those straight charismatic walk... gorgeous... unfortunately, my dear hubby is not an Army... its ok la... bukan jodoh saya kot dgn pegawai tentera...

hahahaha...melalut jer...kepala tgh pening ni... ada kakak tu marahkan saya sampai hntr email kata dia nk buang sgl jenis contact with me... smpi hati dia... salah dia, saya pulak yg dia nk mrh lebih2... apa la...mcmmana nk buat dia tak marah saya lg eh? penatla pg minta maaf byk2 kali... :(


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